Tell me of some bands and songs that I would like.?

She Wants Revenge might suit your fancy, they're a bit like the cure. As well VAST may be up your alley. For stuff like The Birthday Macre ( a great band by the way) you can try or for a more industrial slant on that style either OhGr or Skinny puppy, but your mileage may vary with that (if you like Nine inch Nails you'll probably enjoy them). And besides that I'll throw Type O Negative out there for the sake of it. Finally, though you probably won't like it, I'll say Samael. I thought of them when you mentioned HIM (Bam Margera likes both) but they have a style you probably won't enjoy, but I'd give it a shot anyway.